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Case Study – A Real Example Of What Should Not Be Done – 1

I've been following the blog for a long time and I've learned a lot. I'm following the Red pill Forum, of course. I don't have a problem with accepting my mistakes, and on the contrary, I would like to share what I have to share with you or with the blog. You can publish it if you see fit. Even if you don't have to publish, reading and interpreting will add a lot to me. The summary of the incident is beyond the mercenary and the concrete. I do not think that people who have learned something from this blog will fall into this situation. This is the conversation between me and the girl. We were in the same class as the girl, and as you know, the Whatsapp group was set up. I was thinking about texting the girl, but she threw me the first message in a way I didn't expect. The speeches were going well, but it was a mistake that I often texted, which was also mentioned in the men's block. At the end of the 2-week process, when the man who did not care and did not...
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Men Who Listen To Trouble

Meriç, usually without emotional / sexual response to the girl who do good, spend money, compliment or defend the girl's mistakes are called true. Watch out, it's all men's actions. But there is also a hadith that makes the man passive without doing anything: listening to the girl's problem. I thought I'd open it up a little because it's one of the beta traps. It is stated in the last article; however, the event I will tell is his slightly expanded version. One day you'll meet a girl in any social environment. From the start, the electricity travels in the air, the numbers are easily received and given. He's shy at first, thinking about what I should write when texting her. After all, this is the chance!) he doesn't want to miss it. Then there's something he doesn't expect! She sends a message to him. He's very sad, he's asking for help. The opportunity that our man is waiting for has come to his feet. By listening to the gir...

Practice Of Discipline – Part 3 - Recharge

In the second part of the article the power of small and gradual changes we've seen. If you want to take control of your life, there is one very important thing to watch out for. Do not fall tired and stress. I know it's easy to say, but don't worry. I'il show you how to do it. When you are mentally exhausted, what you do or do not do will go away from relying on your conscious and best judgment. If you want to earn good habits, you need to learn to recharge yourself. If you think that this is an egg – chicken event – that is to say, you are absolutely right, you should be under your control of your life to prevent stress and fatigue, and you should not be stressed or tired to control one's life better. But by adding an effective recharging practice to a stressful Life, you can break the cycle from its weakest point. In fact, if you have a stressful Life, you have to do it in particular. This practice is easy and takes only 10 minutes. The practice of this p...

Practice Of Discipline – Part 2-Small And Gradual Changes

Although the title of the article series is “practical”, we will continue the first part, which is quite theoretical, and we will give you advice that will be useful in practice to get good habits. : Small steps Your brain is resisting sudden changes. If you motivate yourself to do a huge job like “starting tomorrow, I'll be a brand new person,” you can't do anything but consume yourself and get back to work quickly. Big and sudden changes don't work, slow and stable changes don't work. This is the yo – yo effect of discipline.  You must go to the exact border of your comfort zone, this is the only sustainable attitude. If you move in small steps, you will realize that you are a different person within a year, but you will not know exactly when and how the transformation is. The secret is to make a small change and allow your brain to accept it as a new baseline. This will make the next step easier because the baseline has risen slightly. Repeat this for a new c...

Practice Of Discipline – Part 1 – Fuck The Motivation You Need Discipline.

There are basically two ways to do it yourself when you need to do something. : First, try to motivate yourself to do this job, the more popular but overwhelmingly wrong option. Second, it is not popular at all but it is a completely accurate option to gain discipline. This is one of those things that you get better results when you get a different perspective. Very few places where the concept of paradigm shift is used, gives the right to this concept. Motivation – discipline paradigm is one of these places. Well, what is the difference between motivation and discipline? Motivation moves on a false assumption as a certain mental and emotional state is required to complete a task.  This is a completely wrong assumption. Discipline, on the contrary, separates the external function from the mood and emotions. The difference created by this is enormous. Successful completion of a job ensures the mood that those who delay the job constantly think they need to start the jo...

Self Discipline And The “Pain” You Apply To Yourself Are The Most Powerful Means If Improving Yourself.

Pain is beautiful. I'm not just talking about physical pain, it's part of it, but I'm talking about everything that disturbs you. I've been noticing for the last two years that pain is a really great and powerful tool. Through pain, we can shape our lives like statues and control both ourselves and our environment. By depriving yourself of small pleasures throughout the day, you can improve your willpower as you improve your muscles by working in the gym. No, I'm not gonna eat those potato chips this time; I'm gonna close the package and put them away. No, I'm not going to start the shower with warm water; I'm going to bathe with cold water from head to toe. No, I'm not gonna pick up my phone to see if there's a new message.I'm gonna leave my phone in my pocket. No, even if my legs are tired, I'm not going to sit; I'm going to stand for five more minutes. No, I'm not gonna go to work tomorrow, so I'm not gonna drink at...

Don't Let A Woman Impose Her Frame

Each interaction includes a framework in which one person is judged and judged and the other is engaged in satisfaction. The higher the value, naturally, enters the frame of assessment, and the lower the value, the lower the frame of self-proof and satisfaction. While many men are with a woman, without much thought on it, ast falls into the frame by allowing the development of the interaction in that way. We've been taught to answer questions since we were kids. At school, when we answered the questions correctly, we were rewarded by our teachers, and even at University, we took notes by influencing the professor with our mastery of the subject. The problem is that we carry our need for approval to our adulthood, and we let others dominate us by explaining our behavior and thoughts. In fact, many people are too eager to answer the question when asked. But by doing so, AST agrees to fall into the frame. For example, a question women frequently ask is, “what do you do?”stop. By a...